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31-08-2009, 03:11 PM
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I recently confessed to a girl about liking her.. she said she cannot accept me now cos she not prepared 
Is this rejection?
**btw I am 2 years younger than her. I wonder if she is worried about this.
Now I realised that being rejected straight out is less painful than this...  | 
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31-08-2009, 03:21 PM
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my girlfriend is older then me by 2 years | |
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31-08-2009, 03:23 PM
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Let nature take it's course 
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31-08-2009, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted by LOL !  my girlfriend is older then me by 2 years | I know two years isn't much to people nowadays. I dun mind but the problem is whether she minds. Quote:
Originally Posted by torrie Let nature take it's course | Although she said she won't avoid me but I just have this weird feeling that things have changed.. a lot.. maybe its just me | |
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31-08-2009, 03:40 PM
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Erm, if you dun mind jie di lian den you should go ahead..but most girl prefer to have a older bf to have a sense of security  Status Update: Happy Chinese New Year to everyone here ^^ 20-01-2012, 05:44 PM | |
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31-08-2009, 03:43 PM
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age should not be a factor but........ it depends on how the girl feels. >.>
wait few more months lah if rly cannot. then bo bian lol. Status Update: I hate to see you cry, your smile is a beautiful lie. 08-04-2011, 03:57 PM
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31-08-2009, 03:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Emolisher Erm, if you dun mind jie di lian den you should go ahead..but most girl prefer to have a older bf to have a sense of security | Now its whether she minds or not..  Quote:
Originally Posted by shypineapple age should not be a factor but........ it depends on how the girl feels. >.>
wait few more months lah if rly cannot. then bo bian lol. | If she said she cannot accept me now does it mean that I have a chance? | |
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31-08-2009, 04:42 PM
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I recently confessed to a girl about liking her.. she said she cannot accept me now cos she not prepared
Is this rejection?
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It means she need some time to think. Quote:
**btw I am 2 years younger than her. I wonder if she is worried about this.
Now I realised that being rejected straight out is less painful than this... | Yes.
Lot's of girls will prefer a older bf however if she really loves u a lot she won't mind. Status Update: Did you know that money can talk?!? Mine is always saying goodbye...=< 19-11-2010, 10:25 PM | |
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31-08-2009, 05:35 PM
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Originally Posted by crystal1993 No.
It means she need some time to think.
Yes.
Lot's of girls will prefer a older bf however if she really loves u a lot she won't mind. | Wow. I think thats more waiting.. 
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31-08-2009, 05:39 PM
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2 yrs older means?
u are 13 she's 15?
or u r 20, she's 22?
there's a huge difference wor.... | |
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31-08-2009, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by freezer_w 2 yrs older means?
u are 13 she's 15?
or u r 20, she's 22?
there's a huge difference wor.... | I am 17 and she is 19  | |
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31-08-2009, 08:26 PM
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well...maybe she jus isnt ready.
give her time.. when you feel she is ready, ask her if she will accept you
such things cant be rushed. take your time..
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31-08-2009, 09:09 PM
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Originally Posted by kokojun well...maybe she jus isnt ready.
give her time.. when you feel she is ready, ask her if she will accept you
such things cant be rushed. take your time..
give each other a chance to know each other better first. | kks! thanks a lot for your advice | |
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31-08-2009, 09:34 PM
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I may be a little negative but she might just be giving an excuse to reject you. Perhaps she thinks that it is better to reject you indirectly. You should be prepared for the worst scenario.
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31-08-2009, 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by Digitalised I may be a little negative but she might just be giving an excuse to reject you. Perhaps she thinks that it is better to reject you indirectly. You should be prepared for the worst scenario.
Just saying... | Yah. I have thought of this too.. | |
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31-08-2009, 10:12 PM
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imho i think there will be little chances for you alr.no harm waiting,it's up to you.  Status Update: Party party party all night night night,sleep all day then do it again~ 03-02-2012, 11:50 PM
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31-08-2009, 10:13 PM
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Lol
relax lahh
haha
give her more time bahs . -=D Status Update: happy girl ! :D 11-07-2010, 11:57 AM
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31-08-2009, 10:14 PM
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I know what you mean.. I'm in the same situation as you. The confession was 3 months ago.. Same reply. But we've still been going out together. Just 2 days ago, she asked me out to go for the Baybeats event at Esplanade.. Thinking of asking her again soon.. | |
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31-08-2009, 10:15 PM
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ya relax bro. let natural take its course.
i believe age its nt a ig issue unless she mind that u r younger den that, which i doubt so from wat u stated
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31-08-2009, 10:50 PM
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take it easy bro, IMO it seems like she was just giving a excuse to reject you only.
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