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Old 01-09-2009, 01:48 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Sigh.. I got tired thinking of this..
I guess I should zou yi bu suan yi bu ba..

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Old 01-09-2009, 01:52 PM   #22 (permalink)
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since you waited so long alr , give up now kinda wasted.

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Old 01-09-2009, 02:06 PM   #23 (permalink)
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dun give up TS!!
if you really love her dun give up (:
just hope for the best, If cant be tgtr then be good friends!

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jiayou. cannot be lovers also can be friends.

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since you waited so long alr , give up now kinda wasted.
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dun give up TS!!
if you really love her dun give up (:
just hope for the best, If cant be tgtr then be good friends!
Thanks people!! Gave me the motivation to persevere on

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jiayou. cannot be lovers also can be friends.
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Old 01-09-2009, 02:26 PM   #26 (permalink)
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=)
wish u all the best TS =D

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Giving up means being a coward..there is still time to chase her..Give us some breathing space first

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being rejected doesn't mean it's end of the world. give her more time till she's ready.

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Good Luck..

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Old 02-09-2009, 09:04 PM   #30 (permalink)
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Thanks everybody

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I know what you mean.. I'm in the same situation as you. The confession was 3 months ago.. Same reply. But we've still been going out together. Just 2 days ago, she asked me out to go for the Baybeats event at Esplanade.. Thinking of asking her again soon..
Heys! All the best to you too

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Rejection Mean That You Have To Try Harder. Come On Keep Trying Don't Give Up.

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Old 11-09-2009, 06:27 AM   #32 (permalink)
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TS!! I bring you hope! Read my story in the previous page if you don't remember.. I'm happy to tell you that it's not necessarily a rejection. I just popped the question to her again 3 months after the first confession, and now, she's my gf. All the best!

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You confessed. Good job.
It isn't a rejection. She just needs more time.

It may be due to she not knowing you good enough.
Just stay by her side and continue to treat her well.

Godspeed.

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Old 11-09-2009, 09:56 AM   #34 (permalink)
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TS!! I bring you hope! Read my story in the previous page if you don't remember.. I'm happy to tell you that it's not necessarily a rejection. I just popped the question to her again 3 months after the first confession, and now, she's my gf. All the best!
Wow congrats
Thanks a lot!

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You confessed. Good job.
It isn't a rejection. She just needs more time.

It may be due to she not knowing you good enough.
Just stay by her side and continue to treat her well.

Godspeed.
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Old 13-09-2009, 09:28 AM   #35 (permalink)
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ya just give her some more time bah in the meantime show care and concern for her always be there for her

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ya just give her some more time bah in the meantime show care and concern for her always be there for her

good luck
agree...i was going to say that too

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But dont kena friend zone..

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ya just give her some more time bah in the meantime show care and concern for her always be there for her

good luck
Thats what I am doing now

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But dont kena friend zone..
Yeah. Read that already.. sounds scary but I dun think she is that kind of girl

Update::
She recently asked me if I still like her or not
A lot of things happened between us these few days and I think our relationship is improving

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