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Old 3rd January 2010, 01:23 AM   #1 (permalink)
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should i listen to my parents?

troubled over this matter for weeks now.
my dad wants me to quit bball which is my current cca.
the reasons he gave me was..
.he wants me to concentrate just on my studies
.hes gona arrange more tuitions for me & one of them crash with my bball's training day
upon hearing those. i was really.. *speechless?* and then later on he added that he doesnt want me to attend my holidays training anymore. its like : no more basketball from today!
i didnt saw anything after hearing those.. i just lock myself in my bedroom.
bball is like part of my life' asking me to quit is almost impossible
because of that issue we're like having a cold war.
later on i heard from my mom that he applied for a leave for unknown reasons
i didnt suspect anything until later. i asked myself if he applied for leave just to check if im going for my trainings. im really pissed with all these.
holidays training are once a week. i attended the first 2 trainings but didnt went for the rest.
now i still owe my friends and coach an explanation.
troubles EVERYWHERE. i always enjoyed bball. i dont think i can just give up on bball and listen to my dad. any advise on what should i do..
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Old 3rd January 2010, 01:27 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: should i listen to my parents?

well, i think you and your dad should sit down and discuss. Maybe both of u can arrange where u can go training once/twice a week and the rest of the days can go tuition?

In the first place, if your grades were good, your dad won't hired tutor.

Just some of my thoughs

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Old 3rd January 2010, 01:30 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Hmm maybe try talk to him with peace ,i experienced the same things as you i play bmx bike which is dangerous my parents one me to quit and all sorts of excueses came up from them i did well for my studies and after that ,they also like give up le now i have been riding for 4 years

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Old 3rd January 2010, 01:42 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: should i listen to my parents?

thanks for the replies.
ive tried talking to him few days ago and im really sick of him giving me a black face.
he keeps repeating that quitting is just an advise but to me it dont even sound like an advise. its more like.. forcing me to quit. spying to see if i actually go for my training.. giving me the black face.. bringing up the tuitions matter,,

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

just keep trying anyway which school are u playing bball for?

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

i'm sure bball and tuition timing can be compromised.
ur tuition is in a group? or 1 to 1.

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by junebanditz View Post
just keep trying anyway which school are u playing bball for?
beatty sec.

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

just tell your dad cca is also important as normal school subject. if your cca is good and when you wan go poly or jc it make you as an advantage if your score is not so wonderful or if someone is with the same point as you and both of you are competing in the same course you have more percentage of getting in if not wrong A1 for cca -2pts

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by ShiWenBin View Post
i'm sure bball and tuition timing can be compromised.
ur tuition is in a group? or 1 to 1.
there's 4. one of them is 1-1 and rest is in a group.

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just tell your dad cca is also important as normal school subject. if your cca is good and when you wan go poly or jc it make you as an advantage if your score is not so wonderful or if someone is with the same point as you and both of you are competing in the same course you have more percentage of getting in if not wrong A1 for cca -2pts
thats a good point
ill talk to him about it when hes in a better mood
school's gona start in a day and idk what to explain to my coach


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Re: should i listen to my parents?

i dun think you should listen to him...as you said bball is like part of your life and if you quit you also will like cannot study...

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

is it ur o lvl or n lvl year?

if it is. then i got nothing to say.
if not. something may be wrong wif ur grades that make him do dis

how is ur grades anyway?

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

first of all is your OWN FAULT!!

in the first place u should get your grade up before doing cca...
i was once like you...basketball the first place..in the end i have to attend all those stupid tution i have for my math....yes primary my math is like sux....and now i balance both up...and end up i am able to get slp in my math class(you shouldnt do that)....

i am sure your dad is mad at your result.....GET YOUR ASS DO WELL IN STUDY BEFORE YOU CAN DO SOME KICKING BUTT!!!!!!


UNDERSTAND

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

1 more thing TS.
basketball is not ur life. ur life is ur life. it jus part of something u do in ur life.

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by Stuoid_Panda View Post
is it ur o lvl or n lvl year?

if it is. then i got nothing to say.
if not. something may be wrong wif ur grades that make him do dis

how is ur grades anyway?
currently in sec3.
my grades isnt that good. scored b for most of them theres one that i almost fail


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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by lostforwords View Post
currently in sec3.
my grades isnt that good. passed all but theres one that i almost fail
your pass is how pass???....borderline pass?....or really A pass.....there lots of different

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by lostforwords View Post
currently in sec3.
my grades isnt that good. scored b for most of them theres one that i almost fail
wa.sec3 leh.next year o lvls/n lvls...think you should just talk to your teacher or coach better...

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by lostforwords View Post
currently in sec3.
my grades isnt that good. scored b for most of them theres one that i almost fail
now or start on monday u in sec 3

now u know why he sent u for tuition.
u think o lvl is easy. my time yes..even got ppl fail donno why though.

the one almost fail shock him. make him wake up.

i not side anyone but whta ur dad do is the kind of parents u see in spore nowadays. they wan their kids do better.

when u start work then u began to thank them!

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

Originally Posted by mizuki_chin View Post
your pass is how pass???....borderline pass?....or really A pass.....there lots of different
got a b for most of them.
except literature which isa boderline pass

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wa.sec3 leh.next year o lvls/n lvls...think you should just talk to your teacher or coach better...
my legs will shake if i do that.

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now or start on monday u in sec 3

now u know why he sent u for tuition.
u think o lvl is easy. my time yes..even got ppl fail donno why though.

the one almost fail shock him. make him wake up.

i not side anyone but whta ur dad do is the kind of parents u see in spore nowadays. they wan their kids do better.

when u start work then u began to thank them!
ill be in sec3 when school starts on monday.


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Originally Posted by lostforwords View Post
got a b for most of them.
except literature which isa boderline pass

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my legs will shake if i do that.
oh really???.....well i don think so ....

i don think that the reason why your dad asking you to go.....
you better wake up

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Re: should i listen to my parents?

u should go ask him why he do dat!

there must be a reasons. no one do things without one.

anyway does he concern abt ur studies before dis? ask how u in school see ur result?

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