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Old 21st July 2009, 01:43 AM   #1 (permalink)
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My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

I cannot stand the sight of my elder sister's boyfriend. He fetches my sister to supper around midnight almost every other day and comes into the house with my sister. I don't care if my sister allowed him into the house, but I really hate it when I feel that he is a bad influence to my sister and my defendant sister actually scolded me for a remark I made about her boyfriend's car.

On the day of the sgc outing (I'm not sure whose was it, I just went there to meet a few of the sgc people and have no intention of joining), I brought my elder sister along and we went to play mind's cafe with some sgc people. Afterwards, her boyfriend decided to fetch me home first while they chill out somewhere else later. When I hopped into the car, the smell was really strong and I just burped out words like "The car smells like a taxi.". Apparently, her boyfriend was very offended by it. Anyway, after I got off the car, my sister's boyfriend was quite pissed at my comments and had the intention of asking me to pay for the taxi fares (according to my sister who scolded me for it). I am not happy.

My sister said I was rude and had no manners. Hello?! She was swearing and scolding vulgarities while we were still at the mind's cafe and she totally embarrassed me. I never brought up the issue and I just thought that she just said it at the heat of the moment. However, after a long consideration, I thought that the root of the problem lies with her boyfriend because her boyfriend is someone whom I know to be rude and speaks vulgarities with her.

Anyway, I was in my sister's room today and she left her computer and her facebook account page open. I wanted to play the application "Friends for sale" so I used her account to gain access to it. She came back into the room and was so furious. Afterwards, she brought up the issue about making remarks about her boyfriend's car again. She continued by stating that I had no manners and gave me a very proud and annoyed face. I do admit that it was my fault for using her account without her permission. However, a few months back, she used my account without my permission and my knowledge and installed the application "Mob Wars". She even tried to laugh and persuade me to install the application when she had already installed it weeks before. This shows that she does not have the integrity to own up and only have the courage to bring others down due to her high ego. On the other hand, I still feel that all these had happened because her boyfriend is a very bad and strong influence. My sister is still hanging around with him at this time while I am typing this post. What kind of boyfriend would bring a girl around at night almost every other day? Doesn't sound like a decent one to me.

Therefore, I do not like my sister's boyfriend. I really hope that they will break up soon and I feel that it is beneficial to both of them.

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Old 21st July 2009, 01:54 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Hmm.. Perhaps to me you love your sister loads. That's why when her other half is around, you always felt so fed up. And started to nail him on whatever little things he does. How old are you now? Or should I be asking are you in secondary school or what?

As for the bad influence, why do you think so, what makes you think this way? Is there any misunderstanding?

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Old 21st July 2009, 01:56 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Hmm hey never mind.But your sister boyfriend is very bad.But hmm lets try this why you dont try to make her boyfriend happy means that try to give good remarks i knows its difficult lah because you hate that guy but be intelligent dont be fool and dissapointed try to friendship with him so your sister will be.But Imagine if you were in the position of your sister then what will you do?

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

why do you think he's a bad influence? I think he is a pretty nice person who is willing to pick up your sister when they go for supper....

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Wow. Long post.

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Old 21st July 2009, 02:01 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Whether you like it or not. your sister's current BF is your potential Brother-In-Law.

From what you posted and commented on her BF's car, is totally uncalled for. You could have put it across in a nicer way like "thanks for the ride home, I really appreciated it. I kind of find that there is a smell in your car bcos of my sensitive nose. Perhaps you might want to air your car once in awhile or install an ionister to inonise the smell"

I believe that he gave you a ride home on the instruction of your sister. Your remark put her in a tight spot. Remember that by sending you home, he had to spend money on petrol.

As for using your sister's account and her using yours, both parties are at fault as there is no respect for each other's privacy.

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Old 21st July 2009, 02:10 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

she must love him a lot.
lol.
and yeahh,
i agree that he is nice to bring your sister around in his car.

courtship is always sweet.
let them enjoy it while they still can.

and definitely her bf is angry about the remark you made.
he was nice enough to send you home,
and yet you made such comment.
lol.

give each other time to cool off bahh.
if possible,
try to apologize for the comment made.

else,
in future when they get married,
it'll be awkward for your sister to be sandwiched in-between.

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

well, is not a problem for me if my sister bring her bf to my house, after all, he or she need to show respect becuz he or she enter someone house..

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Old 21st July 2009, 06:10 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

but... taxis smell nice!

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

chill gal.. u'll never win no matter how u argue..

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

hmmm u got to try to accept him bah since ur sister really like him a lot bah u cant help ur sister to choose partner rite

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

please do not assume people who spew vulgarity is a bad person. It is the way he was brought up, but that doesnt mean he is a bad person by nature. Do not ASSUME.

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

You can find a better bf and show your sister you are better.
You can consider me

i might not have that money to bring u eat supper.. but i am willing to learn to cook all your fav food/food u want to eat for you.
i might not have a car but i am willing to carry you to all the places you want to go.
i will let u use my facebook to do anything u want.


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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Originally Posted by johng View Post
You can find a better bf and show your sister you are better.
You can consider me

i might not have that money to bring u eat supper.. but i am willing to learn to cook all your fav food/food u want to eat for you.
i might not have a car but i am willing to carry you to all the places you want to go.
i will let u use my facebook to do anything u want.
lololol????

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please do not assume people who spew vulgarity is a bad person. It is the way he was brought up, but that doesnt mean he is a bad person by nature. Do not ASSUME.
so you mean, ur just brought up to be kid always? aw.. i pity you.

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Wait till you sit in a smoker's car.

Anyway the suppers might be becox of shift work or timing hard to match?

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

a petty man i would say.
but still your sister is crazy over him and there is nothing you can do about it...

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woah. chillax la valerie!

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Originally Posted by Peuan Sanit View Post
Whether you like it or not. your sister's current BF is your potential Brother-In-Law.

From what you posted and commented on her BF's car, is totally uncalled for. You could have put it across in a nicer way like "thanks for the ride home, I really appreciated it. I kind of find that there is a smell in your car bcos of my sensitive nose. Perhaps you might want to air your car once in awhile or install an ionister to inonise the smell"

I believe that he gave you a ride home on the instruction of your sister. Your remark put her in a tight spot. Remember that by sending you home, he had to spend money on petrol.

As for using your sister's account and her using yours, both parties are at fault as there is no respect for each other's privacy.
Yeah agreed.
By saying "your car smell like taxi" to a person that offer to send you home sounds so wrong..You could have tell that to you sis alone to advise him to do smthing abt that smell. Its her life that she wans to be with him, you also do not wish your sis to interfere with you and your bf next time rite? so i would advis you yi ren rang yi bu, life will be much more happier

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

Seriously TS, you are having more issues that your sister.

Your sis's bf was nice enough to give u alift home and yet you kpkb abt his car.

I hope you can change or @ least, talk nicely to your sister.

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Re: My sister's boyfriend is an eyesore.

you are too direct on the comments of her BF's car smells like a taxi is really abit overboard. maybe you can phrase it in a nicer way bah.. as for your sister's facebook. nxt time just log out of her account & log it with yours better still. you also must remember to log out of your fb's account & change ur pw if you doesn wans her to log in to your fb's account annoymously

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