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Old 26th January 2011, 08:51 PM   #1 (permalink)
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So annoyed.

Ok this is just a rant cause I am sooooo annoyed like TTM.
And this is about my LOVELY mother.

First, she was complaining about how I wasn't studying enough for Os and that I was gonna do badly and be posted to a school that I won't wanna go to and BLABLABLA. Then after Os it was about how I was lazing around doing nothing and being useless. Like SERIOUSLY? I just finished a major exam and you want me to do what? Work my ass off? Seriously?

So as I was doing Os, I also bought a pair of running shoes but because of Os I didn't run much.

After Os I got a couple runs in the shoes before it started to rain a lot and the weather became unpredictable. So I stayed home instead.

So after I got my results she was like super happy cause I didn't study (according to her) but managed to do well enough to get into the course I wanted.

And NOW she's SUDDENLY out of the blue complaining about how I wasted her money buying my running shoes and not even using them and when I said it's been raining a lot she's just like "excuses". And it's not like she bought them for me.

Like sure, I control the weather don't I?

It's like NOTHING pleases her.
I study say I don't (even though I didn't mug or anything)
I stay at home complain I lazy.
I go out with my friends complain I only know how to play and never want to go out with the family.
I want to find job complain about how last time (2-3 months ago) don't want to find now then want.
I want to go out with family she never wants it.
I want to go shopping for clothes (with MY money) she say I waste money when I got so many clothes already (which I don't, it's all home clothes)
I do chores around the house she complain why I don't do it everyday.
I get As for something she compare me to a relative (I did better than her for Os in the end) say she so hardworking and so smart. In the end after TPJC go private uni nia. I mean want to compare me compare with someone smarter can?


And when I say complain, it IS complaining. The whole "lecture".
Sometimes she even gets angry and scolds me. Like got bipolar like that.

It's like she gives me no freedom in life in terms of accepting my choices.
I got into my first choice she like "Oh. Good for you".

But my brother got letter from SP regarding part-time dip, she go crazy telling him he better hurry and do this do that and hand in this and that and make such a big deal out of nothing.

I did the best among my 3 siblings for PSLE and O levels.
And when I say the best, the L1R5 difference is like more than 10 points from the "2nd best".

I understand if she expects a lot from me. I get it that she wants me to go to uni and succeed in life and whatever.

But what's up with the attitude.
She is never supportive of what I do or choose even though I'm retaliate the least among my siblings.
I never get a word of praise for big things and my siblings have their "thrones".
I rarely even get "thank you" until recently when I made her say it and each time she says it its in a condescending tone..



OK, I have no idea what's the purpose of this thread but I'm just pissed off.

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Old 26th January 2011, 09:03 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

At least you rant it off sis, chill babe!
Parents are like this.

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Old 26th January 2011, 10:01 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

ur R5 how much haha?

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Old 26th January 2011, 10:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

iHadyu: Haha, what else can I do?

rinnono: If you look hard enough, you will find it.

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Old 26th January 2011, 10:19 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

Same case for my Dad.

Never study say I never study. Study until get bursary then tell me in my face "So what?".

Just ignore her.

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Old 26th January 2011, 11:00 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

Originally Posted by rinnono View Post
ur R5 how much haha?
44. Maybe.

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Old 26th January 2011, 11:07 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

about the same as my mum, i get scholarship, not enough still wan me go work on weekends

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Old 26th January 2011, 11:31 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

Seet: Hahaha, yeah, what else to do right? Can't possible entertain her every whim.

Vriel: Almost. Actually it's 45. LOL.

Lizhi: Yeah, wonder what they thinking when they expect too much.

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Old 27th January 2011, 02:22 AM   #9 (permalink)
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it's normal. mothers are like that. naggy...n it gets worse with age.
better be prepared. hahahha
they always say others' children r better than their own. kinda sad but i think it's their way of relieving stress. so weird...


anyhow, think she's just worried about u.
just do ur thing well, help out with whatever u can and smile.
congrats for ur Os.

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Old 27th January 2011, 02:32 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

TS... ur not alone..

(my mom siao 1, scold me for being selfish then 5 mins later tell me to be stingy. -.-)

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Old 27th January 2011, 03:54 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

Originally Posted by 2x2e2n View Post
it's normal. mothers are like that. naggy...n it gets worse with age.
better be prepared. hahahha
they always say others' children r better than their own. kinda sad but i think it's their way of relieving stress. so weird...


anyhow, think she's just worried about u.
just do ur thing well, help out with whatever u can and smile.
congrats for ur Os.

Hahahah, omg yeah. And it's worse cause I'm the youngest. T.T
How is it relieving stress? Oh, I know! By passing it to me! Lol.

Hahaha, thanks!


knighttjy: Lol, now THAT'S weird.

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Old 27th January 2011, 04:05 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

TS, maybe she's PMS-ing.... When my mom PMS she blames the whole world but not herself, sigh.

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Old 27th January 2011, 07:24 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: So annoyed.

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TS, maybe she's PMS-ing.... When my mom PMS she blames the whole world but not herself, sigh.
Definitely not. Lol. Impossible. HAHA

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Re: So annoyed.

All this sounds normal to me. they always complain about this kind of thing.

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Originally Posted by leily View Post
Definitely not. Lol. Impossible. HAHA
menopause alrd? hahaha.

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Re: So annoyed.

Hey look on the brighter side of things, at least you guys have a family to be nagged at.

I only have 3 guitars and a cat.

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U may wanna leave that house as soon as u get married.

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Felt better ranting out eh?

Well it's no use trying to please her with everything you do when she doesnt appreciate it. Just do whatever you like and eff the rest

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One day she'll notice how good and hardworking you actually are, so just hold on until then.
The best way is to turn all these negativity into motivation and drive, then you'll succeed in the future.
All the best!

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Re: So annoyed.

easy. fake emotional breakdowns. after a while your mom will begin to sympathize you and stop bothering you anymore.

god, i'm such a lousy role model.

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