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Old 15th October 2012, 03:01 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Stepping in on a relationship

There is something not quite right with my sisters relationship with her boyfriend. I don't know what it is. I'm not super close with her but I know something is not right. She is a different (quieter) person when he is around. Can I step in and ask what the problem is? I wouldn't want to ruin our relationship.

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Old 16th October 2012, 12:11 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Stepping in on a relationship

maybe she knows her bf prefers the quiet type of girl? or because you are there so she needs to behave?

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Re: Stepping in on a relationship

If she wants to talk about it, she will tell you eventually.Whatever it is this is their privacy.

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Re: Stepping in on a relationship

I know that you probably don't mean to be disruptive, but the fact that you used the phrase "step in", it already means that you have half a mind to interfere.

So at this point you should consider the worst case scenario of them breaking up because of your nosing around, and if your concern for your sister outweighs this guilt, then I would say go ahead. Because you have in the end lived with her for most of your life, and even if you aren't close, you should still have an inkling when something is wrong, and it is also the duty of family members to care for/look after each other.

Just be aware, that there is no Undo in reality, be careful about what you say and what you do, don't make hasty judgements, try not to patronize, and always always get both sides of the story before coming to a conclusion.

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