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Old 27th January 2010, 07:25 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Just now my mum talk to my brother's form teacher. Sigh , another complain.
My brother told his teacher that my dad give him only 20 cent a day. But actually my dad give him $2-$3 a day , is he keep using it to buy sushi and other useless item. He's already primary 6 but his size is like primary 3 kid. Not because we didn't feed him anything , is he eat very little and he doesn't want to eat vegetables . He's only interested in mcdonald , chicken wing and tibits. When having dinner , he just took a few bite and continue playing PSP , or watching tv. My brother from Nursery till now , always have problem in his study , even till now , he didn't pass any subject before. His report book always 1 digit or 10 to 20 marks. We tried confiscating his PSP but no use one
Not i don't want to teach him to study , whenever i force him to sit at the dining table. He always distract by small small thing , and if i turn around, he will run away. Someone please help me or calm me down before i wack him. Sorry for the bad english

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Old 27th January 2010, 07:28 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Wow, I guess he's too pampered?
Have your parents tried the harsh way before? :l

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Old 27th January 2010, 07:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Wow, I guess he's too pampered?
Have your parents tried the harsh way before? :l
Last time my mum always use cane , then he just cry cry cry. My mum stop it cause it doesn't work on him

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Old 27th January 2010, 07:31 PM   #4 (permalink)
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seek any professional or psychological help already?

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Tsk. Should call Super Nanny to help.

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Old 27th January 2010, 07:34 PM   #6 (permalink)
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seek any professional or psychological help already?
No , but we do bring him to a special school for dyslexia

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Old 27th January 2010, 07:37 PM   #7 (permalink)
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No , but we do bring him to a special school for dyslexia
i think apart from the usual solution, being patient to him is very important, of cos i understand its very difficult to do it, and easily make one to feel very pek chek...

btw, is there anything he's interested in? as in like... sports? actresses? or games? any particular subject?

will it be possible to lead in from here? and how about preparing a schedule for him, maybe like 1 hour for homework/revision, 2 hours of psp? something like that? do you think its workable?

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Old 27th January 2010, 07:45 PM   #8 (permalink)
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i think apart from the usual solution, being patient to him is very important, of cos i understand its very difficult to do it, and easily make one to feel very pek chek...

btw, is there anything he's interested in? as in like... sports? actresses? or games? any particular subject?

will it be possible to lead in from here? and how about preparing a schedule for him, maybe like 1 hour for homework/revision, 2 hours of psp? something like that? do you think its workable?
Maybe i can try . Thanks ! He's interested in maple

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Your parents pamper him too much. Most probably you brother is a highly kinesthetic kid. Confiscate his psp is a good idea.

Kinesthetic kids to play a lot. They can’t sit still. Sadly said our school system suit more to the visual or auditory student, thus the kinesthetic student is left behind and eventually lost interest in studies.

To teach such kids, you need to move a lot. Their minds work better on the move. Play some education games especially when teaching math.

Another reason, he might be a ADHD. ADHD student, when they see words or numbers, especially lot’s of text, it seem to them like the text are moving and they start playing with it imaginary, thus when they take exam, they hardly complete it. If that so, he need a specialist to handle.


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Your parents pamper him too much. Most probably you brother is a highly kinesthetic kid. Confiscate his psp is a good idea.
Kinesthetic kids to play a lot. They can’t sit still. Sadly said our school system suit more to the visual or auditory student, thus the kinesthetic student is left behind and eventually lost interest in studies.
To teach such kids, you need to move a lot. Their minds work better on the move. Play some education games especially when teaching math.
Another reason, he might be a ADHD. ADHD student, when they word, especially lot’s of text, it seem to them like the text are moving and they start playing with it imaginary, thus when they take exam, they hardly complete it. If that so, he need a specialist to handle.

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Maybe bah , cause he's the only son. His school want kick him out already

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Re: Troubled

just wack him

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Old 27th January 2010, 08:09 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: Troubled

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just wack him
Lol. Nevermind liao. I'm fine now

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Re: Troubled

anyway off topic

u look very pretty <.<

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Originally Posted by yunzai90 View Post
anyway off topic

u look very pretty <.<
Er. Thanks ?

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Re: Troubled

U damn random....

I think u will need to talk to ur parents not to spoil him anymore. Spoiling him any further can greatly damage his future. He's Pri 6, caning will not be of much help anymore, knocking some sense into him with some drastic action will be better, but not too drastic please. Luckz!

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U damn random....

I think u will need to talk to ur parents not to spoil him anymore. Spoiling him any further can greatly damage his future. He's Pri 6, caning will not be of much help anymore, knocking some sense into him with some drastic action will be better, but not too drastic please. Luckz!
I tried talking to him nicely , but it doesn't help. What's drastic action ?

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You didn't mention in your post that your parents are spoiling him, but how come everyone says so?

*puzzled.

maybe your brother is just too easy to lose concentration, and playful.

you need to have lots of patience with him. the sch, the teachers or anyone can give up on you, but you, as his sister cannot. So you need to be strong yourself too.

Try and let him understand the 'benefits' of studying one hour, and play for 2 hours, etc, though its slow progress, but at least, its progressing.

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You didn't mention in your post that your parents are spoiling him, but how come everyone says so?

*puzzled.

maybe your brother is just too easy to lose concentration, and playful.

you need to have lots of patience with him. the sch, the teachers or anyone can give up on you, but you, as his sister cannot. So you need to be strong yourself too.

Try and let him understand the 'benefits' of studying one hour, and play for 2 hours, etc, though its slow progress, but at least, its progressing.
Especially when he's having PSLE this year , i really need to force him to study already. Last few days teacher complain that he kiss one girl in his class headache

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Especially when he's having PSLE this year , i really need to force him to study already. Last few days teacher complain that he kiss one girl in his class headache


serious??

is he sort of start to be curious about girls? what happened after that? did you all tell him he need to respect female and their body? is he very resistant towards so called 'lectures' from the elders?

and you meant he is having time to absorb the things in school issit?

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serious??

is he sort of start to be curious about girls? what happened after that? did you all tell him he need to respect female and their body? is he very resistant towards so called 'lectures' from the elders?

and you meant he is having time to absorb the things in school issit?
Last time he use to anyhow touch touch girl , but now he stop it already. He say the girl is his girlfriend Kiss cheek only. Heng

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