why it end up this way

**xueren** · 12-04-2007, 08:08 PM

:handsup: remember earlier i posed a question..this guy asked if i like him after meeting him for the first time and even said he will date me again ...i sort of hinted that i liked him..then after that he stopped smsing me and even when i greeted him on msn, he didnt reply..whats wrong?is he disgusted that i like him?its so humiliating

**finaldust** · 12-04-2007, 08:14 PM

I dont think it is ur fault bah maybe he dont know how to do or he is flirt?

**xueren** · 12-04-2007, 08:17 PM

i realise i have feelings for him but sad he is avoiding me in this manner.hes the one who asked if i like him and now he is retreating .....

My friends said if he is afraid that i like him, he wouldnt ask such a question...btw i knew him for around 8 months from the net....does that mean that he is not interested in me or dislike me?

its so embarassing now..i cant see him online and have to block him..and i realise that he has a new female friend in friendster

simplepris · 12-04-2007, 08:40 PM

so how long has he been avoiding u?

**xueren** · 12-04-2007, 08:42 PM

a week..

**toh_3312** · 12-04-2007, 10:05 PM

be more optimistic ...... some time he maybe very busy ? is better to call him for some accurate answer , (to clear your doubt) ... bec no point guessing when the answer could be X could be Y ....

**Crysania** · 12-04-2007, 10:24 PM

Some guys asked girls if they like him, just to make themselves feel good. Since they have already "won" over the girl, move on to the next one. No more challenge.

**ah_lei** · 12-04-2007, 10:27 PM

oh my ger, u just simply had a crush on him nia. no worries. =)

**sihwee** · 12-04-2007, 10:56 PM

yea. maybe he just wanna prove that he can make u like him or sumthing?
i dunno. perhaps ask him why he's avoiding u directly?

**relief234** · 12-04-2007, 11:28 PM

Ya i think you shld ask him directly, prob he's jus too busy.

Triglav · 13-04-2007, 12:28 AM

yup he could be too busy or he could also be playing mind games with you so that you may like him more or also possible he might just want to make the next date to be more intense from all the anticipation built up in both parties.

So anyway wait for his next move,but if he drag it too long like over 1 month then maybe then you should start questioning if he likes you

**vgohyk** · 13-04-2007, 09:40 AM

It happened on me before. I didn't really ask for the reason but could sense that he was just not interested in me anymore. I don't know, it may be the first impression, or whatsoever.

Heheh! Chill lady.

**DeMoCrYz** · 13-04-2007, 01:21 PM

Think positive ..... maybe he busy with his own stuff .... find a good day to chat with him ... from there ... u can understand him better .... jia you =)

**wangzi<3** · 13-04-2007, 03:12 PM

sounds like a jerk to me..

but then again, i have this taiwanese net friend who is rebellious, really bad, do drugs and drug trafficking, get into fights, work for the secret society once or twice etc.. all the bad boy stuff

but when he comes to love, he's soooo shy that u can't imagine him being like that. he is wooing this girl he like and according to him, he was quite successful already.. can be together anytime.. and u know what? he actually told me that he wants to disappear from her, he wants to stop contacting her..

it's not that he don't like her or something, it's just that he is TOO SHY to continue.. TOO SHY to be together with her..

so i guess, anything can really happen

who knows, maybe this guy of urs is the same as my taiwanese friend.. :mellow3: gd luck ~

**toh_3312** · 13-04-2007, 03:31 PM

yap yap..... still .. it is better if u can call him to ask ....

**dj_ladyviolet** · 13-04-2007, 03:50 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crysania

Some guys asked girls if they like him, just to make themselves feel good. Since they have already "won" over the girl, move on to the next one. No more challenge.

i agree with Crysania. Some guys find thrills in noeing that they r popular with gals. Maybe call him n find out from him if he's alright. Maybe he is just being busy w life/work/sch?

Having another female fren on frenster doesn't mean anything. He is free to make other frens as he is not attached to you yet. Even if he is, there is nothing wrong with making another fren as long as he doen't go beyond that.

**xechizon** · 13-04-2007, 03:57 PM

It maybe not avoiding u. busy schedule prolly ? dun guess so much. the more u guess, the more negative u tend to be.

get a definite answer would be much better.

Jia you

**Cheer** · 13-04-2007, 04:36 PM

Er, may i just ask. how did u get to know him in the first place?

**xueren** · 13-04-2007, 06:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cheer

Er, may i just ask. how did u get to know him in the first place?

frm the net...i just smsed him..and he just replied a hello:cry3:

**ahmas** · 13-04-2007, 09:28 PM

i think you just put too much hope in the 1st place. may i know how old r you? and how confidence you feel in yourself?

dont becoz of a tree and forget abt the whole amazon forest. if he jio-ed you but yet no actions (maybe he bz? maybe he just flirst ard?) we don't know. but life still need to keep going on and put everything aside. give yourself fresh air. you might encounter more surpaise ahead. love yourself before you want other to love you.