[RED.ADEN]

I seriously don't understand.
Why can't they be devoted?
Why do they cheat when they started a relationship?
Why do they cheat when they vowed to be married?

[Shi Yuen]

not all guys cheats.
some are really faithful.
and
girls do cheat on guys too.

[boyi66]

Originally Posted by Shi Yuen

not all guys cheats.
some are really faithful.
and
girls do cheat on guys too.

ya agree.

guess something bad happen to ya. Don't brood over it.
Sail pass it. ^^

[Neji]

well i have to be honest here, and alot of people might not agree but i know they know they might do it sooner or later....

but everyone cheats.....it actually depends weather or not their caught.....but if u ask WHY!!! well there is 1 simple answer, sometimes a guy/girl find their relentionship boring or going really slow, so they try to converse and get into contact with another partner, sometimes they might just treat it to past the time, but sometimes they might find the other girl more for him/her....soo there are lots of reasons

[PiDanBeR]

yup... Not all guy cheat... girls cheat too...
there's bound to be pros and cons in everything... there sure be some bad eggs in a basket of eggs... it depend on luck and how you face it ba...

[pika2]

whats the big deal
faithful is shittt la

[lovejs]

I seriously don't understand.
Why can't they be devoted?
Why do they cheat when they started a relationship?
Why do they cheat when they vowed to be married?

Actually not every guy cheats. Guys do have the tendency to stray around. And some guys, they just have the ability to do that without the reason why. You can't "force" a guy to be faithful if he doesn't want to, the only way to deal with this, is to be smart. Nowadays, it's not like we ladies have to follow around, yet we can have the ability to make a guy follow us around. That's why whenever I see my girlfrens start "chasing around" their guys, I tell them "why chase a guy if a dog's not loyalty ?"

And I feels that if you don't want to end up in this kind of situation, find a guy who will treat you good. I believe there's alot of good guys around too who's willing to treat you preciously =)

whats the big deal
faithful is shittt la

I felt sorry for those mankind, you are utterly a disgrace to those men who speak for themselves as being faithfulness. Faithful is a good old word for every man.

[Moz]

I seriously don't understand.
Why can't they be devoted?
Why do they cheat when they started a relationship?
Why do they cheat when they vowed to be married?

I guess they are not satisfied?

[water-sprite]

Many reasons as to why girls cheat too tho most of the time men cheat more cus they lust easily and get tempted by flesh v easily... girls tend to cheat more on emotional aspects....

so yup, must nip the prob in the bud if possible!

people cheat mainly due to :
1) ego : the more the merrier , seen as a stud by other men
2) fulfil sexual needs : partner not attractive enuff or doesnt provide enuff pleasure
3) fulfil emotional needs : partner not connected emotionally, so have to share feelings with someone else

[elainesy]

i think not only guy cheat lah, i think gals also..alot of reason that cause this to happen, if we nv go sch nv go out we will be save at home no right, so ppl will change when they met diff ppl..

[raph]

guys or gals cheat for a reason.. boredom, excitement, new challengers...etc etc..

[jwng]

Most of the time is cos they get what they want le & wanna try new one bah.

Can get back the 'sense of achievement' lol

[mrlazy]

boredom should be the one that cause people to cheat.

[Taki]

girls cheat too ~~

can't blame guys being cheaters. Neither can blame girls.
There are situations and environment that affect's a moulding of a guy .
To take the path of cheating . There is sure to be a story behind anyway . LOL

[Artemis86]

Actually everyone of us are exposed to temptations...its rather how we deal with those...those who cheat be they be guys or gals just don't handle temptations well, without self discipline, looking for the easy way out and for immediate gratification.

Guys cheat mainly due to:
Yes ego - esp those who are older and married, they wanna show they r still attractive so they go for younger girls.
Incompatible sex drive/ unfulfilled sexual needs - Maybe their women din want sex as much as them or their women din want to do certain acts so they stray looking for those who meet their needs.
Underlying prob - guys may unconsciously sabotage their own r/s by cheating as they r commitment phobic or don't trust girls or because of sexual abuse in the past etc.
Unfulfilled emotional needs - maybe their women nag at them too much, din appreciate them as much, or r cold to them so the guys seek outside for 'nicer' girls who are attentive and loving.
Sense of excitement - the excitement they feel from doing something they shouldn't do such as sleeping with other girls, and of cuz the 'new' feeling of doing it with someone else.

Girls cheat due to:
'Revenge' - why my guy can cheat and i can't?
want to feel loved but seek it in this way - Maybe her guy din spend enough time/feelings/attention on her
Unfulfilled sexual needs - some girls may have higher sex drive than their guys and may choose to cheat because they din get their needs met.
Curiosity
Jealousy - trying to make their guys jealous by being with other guys. Some people believe that if their partners don't show jealousy, means their partners don't care as much about them le. (To me? this is juz bullsh*t. Jealousy shouldn't b used a weapon in r/s n it can backfire)

Mostly the reasons for cheating are similar for both genders...it juz depends on context and circumstances. However people do irrational things when they are ruled by their emotions and sexuality. So its kinda hard to say how people can devote themselves totally to their r/s and marriages.

I should say that to successfully bypass this cheating behavior, both man and woman should not just use their heart and down-under, but also their head.

Haiz nowadays its quite rare to find a man with honor (maybe woman too) who abides by his own vows and promises. It does seem in this day and age, the promises that men made are no longer as important as their pleasure or self-interest or ego.

Really, if u r unsure whether u can keep your promises, don't ever make those promises to someone u care about! Because when u break your word, it'd hurt him/her more than urself. And besides, once u make the habit of keep breaking ur word, it is difficult for anyone to believe ur promises anymore.

[Windylicious]

When girls get cheated... they say..

Why do all guys cheat? Cant they stay faithful?

When guys get cheated... they say

Why do all gals cheat? Cant they stay faithful?

Its the same lol, which ever sex gets cheated, the qns is always the same lol.

[RED.ADEN]

Originally Posted by Artemis86

Actually everyone of us are exposed to temptations...its rather how we deal with those...those who cheat be they be guys or gals just don't handle temptations well, without self discipline, looking for the easy way out and for immediate gratification.

Guys cheat mainly due to:
Yes ego - esp those who are older and married, they wanna show they r still attractive so they go for younger girls.
Incompatible sex drive/ unfulfilled sexual needs - Maybe their women din want sex as much as them or their women din want to do certain acts so they stray looking for those who meet their needs.
Underlying prob - guys may unconsciously sabotage their own r/s by cheating as they r commitment phobic or don't trust girls or because of sexual abuse in the past etc.
Unfulfilled emotional needs - maybe their women nag at them too much, din appreciate them as much, or r cold to them so the guys seek outside for 'nicer' girls who are attentive and loving.
Sense of excitement - the excitement they feel from doing something they shouldn't do such as sleeping with other girls, and of cuz the 'new' feeling of doing it with someone else.

Girls cheat due to:
'Revenge' - why my guy can cheat and i can't?
want to feel loved but seek it in this way - Maybe her guy din spend enough time/feelings/attention on her
Unfulfilled sexual needs - some girls may have higher sex drive than their guys and may choose to cheat because they din get their needs met.
Curiosity
Jealousy - trying to make their guys jealous by being with other guys. Some people believe that if their partners don't show jealousy, means their partners don't care as much about them le. (To me? this is juz bullsh*t. Jealousy shouldn't b used a weapon in r/s n it can backfire)

Mostly the reasons for cheating are similar for both genders...it juz depends on context and circumstances. However people do irrational things when they are ruled by their emotions and sexuality. So its kinda hard to say how people can devote themselves totally to their r/s and marriages.

I should say that to successfully bypass this cheating behavior, both man and woman should not just use their heart and down-under, but also their head.

Haiz nowadays its quite rare to find a man with honor (maybe woman too) who abides by his own vows and promises. It does seem in this day and age, the promises that men made are no longer as important as their pleasure or self-interest or ego.

Really, if u r unsure whether u can keep your promises, don't ever make those promises to someone u care about! Because when u break your word, it'd hurt him/her more than urself. And besides, once u make the habit of keep breaking ur word, it is difficult for anyone to believe ur promises anymore.

Best answer.
Thanks.

And thanks to the rest too.

[pika2]

so much crap i oso dun wan to read

[inle]

i think i had mentioned tis b4....
guys cheat mostly due to physical temptations...
gals cheat mostly due to emotional temptations...

usually, the prob of cheatin guys r easily overcome than cheatin gals...
the matters of the hearts r alwasy the complicated ones....

[RED.ADEN]

Originally Posted by pika2

so much crap i oso dun wan to read

Don't want to read then get out la.
Nobody tells you to be here.

**You made a crap out of yourself.