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Old 10th January 2011, 08:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Why most guy are selfish?

I realise most guy is selfish...even though I am a guy myself..

I dun like to make friend with a guy, I feel that girl and female is better person for listening my trouble and worries..


Guy really is can't listen to what I say...and usually say I am pussy and even make fun of me...when I get into trouble at work, usually is female colleague who help me...

u agree that guy r more selfish and less helpful?

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Old 10th January 2011, 08:54 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

i dont know, but they are more aggressive by nature. females are more, well, motherly. basically the brains of males and females work somewhat differently. it isnt safe to generalise the entire male population because of a few friends. i read somewhere before that males bond by doing things together while females bond by talking.

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Old 10th January 2011, 08:58 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

i strongly disagree wif this statement... actually from wad u have stated, they are calling u a pussy, etc, etc are all for fun... but i believe when there shld be a situation whr u nid help, they will still help u...

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Old 10th January 2011, 08:59 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Selfishness is just an attitude/mindset among a certain number of males in this world.

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Old 10th January 2011, 09:05 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Originally Posted by zero_88 View Post
I realise most guy is selfish...even though I am a guy myself..

I dun like to make friend with a guy, I feel that girl and female is better person for listening my trouble and worries..


Guy really is can't listen to what I say...and usually say I am pussy and even make fun of me...when I get into trouble at work, usually is female colleague who help me...

u agree that guy r more selfish and less helpful?
Imma be honest here.
If you ask me to help out, sure i'd do that.

If you want me to sit down and listen to someone complaining and whining about his troubles i'd tell him to go **** himself.(No offense intended.)

I'm honestly not the listening kind of person.

Perhaps you're mixing up the type of help you're looking for? Most guys i know aren't the sit still and listen to problems type. And those that i DO know that sit down and listen are gay dudes. Which is kind of creepy.

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Old 10th January 2011, 09:44 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Lol I beg to differ. I do sit down somewhere out there and talk things out and listen to my male friends' rants. And I am STRAIGHT.

Anyway, ts, I guess guys are just generally more impatient in listening than girls. But definitely not all guys are like that. People who easily classify those who sit and listen as gay dudes just have a really way myopic view.


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Old 10th January 2011, 09:50 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

^ You misunderstood my post. I merely said that most people that I know.
I did not say that ALL people who sit down and listen are gay.

Did i claim that everyone who listens to you and is a male, is gay?
No.

Read before you post please.

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Old 10th January 2011, 10:26 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

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^ You misunderstood my post. I merely said that most people that I know.
I did not say that ALL people who sit down and listen are gay.

Did i claim that everyone who listens to you and is a male, is gay?
No.

Read before you post please.
And did I specifically mention that you stereotype such people as gays? NO.

Fyi, why can't it be a casual remark huh?

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Old 13th January 2011, 12:53 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

guys are more fun to hang out with!

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guys are more fun to hang out with!

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Old 13th January 2011, 12:58 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

You have'nt met your buddy yet i guess.

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Old 13th January 2011, 07:18 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Stereotypes.

The recipe to making a selfish person:

1. Read this recipe
2. Make lots and lots of money and study like mad
3. Rich and A1's for all subjects
4. Increase ego to 3x10^8
5. ???????????
6. Achievement unlocked: Most selfish guy in the world.

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Old 15th January 2011, 10:34 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

might be your working environment that causes them to be selfish eg bonus or promotions ?? ??

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Old 26th January 2011, 03:20 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Coz everybody in this world is selfish

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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Originally Posted by vios21 View Post
You have'nt met your buddy yet i guess.
well as vios21 said u haven't met ur buddy yet. When u find a buddy, you'll know that there are still guys who are a gd listener and advisor and such. I myself in example have a very gd buddy whom i can relate to when i need a friend to listen to my problems. I do hope u find a gd buddy in the near future

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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Not all are like that.

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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

For me, well I have a few great bosom guy friends. We're all straight and we can still sit down and talk about heart-to-heart issues. Addressing TS' view, I believe that this is because girls generally seem more approachable? About those guys who tease you, just ignore them.

It really works cause I've had first hand experience before. Art of ignorance includes being totally indifferent to what they say. When you ignore them and they are unable to receive a response from you, eventually they grow bored. But it will be a lot tougher than it seems. Endurance is the key, my friend. They will still continue to bother you if you ignore them but your disposition doesn't show that you are unaffected by their remarks. In summary, just remember to stay cool, put on your poker face and don't let your body language give yourself away that you may be in a vulnerable position.

An added plus: You may gain the respect from those who previously teased you. They could become really good friends with you in the future. Once again speaking from first-hand experience

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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

everyone is selfish to a certain extent...tts called self preservation

about the other part of the question, dun mind me saying but if someone calls you a pussy mayb u are a little effeminate tts y...and girls tend to treat u like one of their "sisters" and guys dun wanna associate with you....just my opinion...

unless the guy is my friend, frankly i won't really wanna listen to his troubles...in fact why would you talk about ur troubles to a person that is not close to u?

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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

Ya lor if they dun wan help at least show some respect ma

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i agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! we got the same mindset.. :x

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Re: Why most guy are selfish?

You didn't meet any good friends in NS?

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